When a loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia, life changes for everyone involved.
Most people understand that dementia affects memory, but what many don’t realize is how profoundly it affects the family members and friends who step into the role of caregiver. Caregiving often begins gradually—a reminder here, a ride to an appointment there—but over time it can become a responsibility that touches nearly every aspect of a caregiver’s life.
I once heard someone say that it takes three people to adequately care for one person living with dementia. Whether that number is scientifically accurate or not, the message has always stayed with me. The needs can be overwhelming, yet many caregivers find themselves trying to do it all alone.
They are managing medications, appointments, meals, household tasks, transportation, safety concerns, financial matters, and countless other responsibilities. Many are balancing full-time jobs, raising children, caring for spouses, and trying to maintain their own health—all while supporting someone they love through a progressive disease.
The reality is that caregiving can be physically exhausting, emotionally draining, and, at times, incredibly isolating.
Yet caregivers continue showing up every day because of love.
The Hidden Cost of Caregiving
Many caregivers quietly sacrifice their own well-being. They miss social events. They postpone vacations. They neglect their own medical appointments. They often carry feelings of guilt when they take time for themselves and frustration when they feel overwhelmed.
If this sounds familiar, please know this:
You are not failing.
You are carrying a tremendous responsibility, and no one should have to carry it alone.
In fact, seeking help is often one of the best things you can do—not only for yourself, but for the person you are caring for.
Resources Every Caregiver Should Know About
One of the greatest challenges families face is simply knowing where to turn.
Fortunately, there are organizations dedicated to helping caregivers navigate the dementia journey.
Alzheimer’s & Dementia Services of Northern Indiana
One of the first calls I encourage families to make is to Alzheimer’s & Dementia Services of Northern Indiana. Their mission is centered on supporting caregivers through education, advocacy, resources, and personalized guidance. They understand that every family’s situation is unique and will take the time to listen to your story and help connect you with resources that fit your specific needs.
They also partner in operating Milton Adult Day Services, a remarkable program that provides a safe, engaging environment for individuals living with dementia and other conditions while giving caregivers valuable respite time. Milton Village’s innovative model focuses on dignity, independence, and quality of life for participants.
Another invaluable resource is the Alzheimer’s Association. They provide education, support groups, care planning assistance, and a free 24/7 Helpline that caregivers can call anytime they need information, guidance, or simply someone who understands what they’re experiencing. They also offer care navigation services and resources designed specifically for both individuals living with dementia and their caregivers.
Many families are unaware of the GUIDE Program (Guiding an Improved Dementia Experience), a Medicare initiative designed to provide additional support for individuals living with dementia and their caregivers.
Depending on eligibility and Medicare coverage, participants may have access to care coordination, caregiver education, and respite services that provide much-needed relief for family caregivers. Alzheimer’s & Dementia Services of Northern Indiana can help families understand whether they may qualify and how to access these benefits.
Seniors Helping Seniors® Northern Indiana is proud to be an approved provider for the GUIDE Program, allowing eligible families to use available respite benefits to receive companionship and support from our caregivers.
Why Taking a Break Isn’t Selfish
Many caregivers hesitate to ask for help because they feel they should be able to do it all themselves.
The truth is that no one was meant to do this alone.
Taking a few hours to run errands, attend a family event, schedule your own doctor’s appointment, or simply rest can make an enormous difference. Respite care is not about stepping away from your loved one; it’s about ensuring you have the energy and support needed to continue caring for them.
At Seniors Helping Seniors® in-home care, we often tell families that we aren’t there to replace them—we’re there to support them. Whether a caregiver needs help while they’re at work, traveling out of town, attending appointments, or simply taking a well-deserved break, our caregivers can help fill those gaps.
Standing Beside Caregivers
This week, many members of our community will gather for the Stand By Me Walk, an event dedicated to supporting local dementia caregivers and raising awareness about the challenges they face. The event helps fund resources that remain right here in our community, benefiting caregivers who need support today. We are honored to be a sponsor because this cause is deeply important to us.
But whether it’s during a community walk, a support group meeting, or a quiet conversation between friends, the message remains the same:
Caregivers need support, too.
If you are caring for someone living with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease, please remember that help is available. There are organizations, programs, and people in our community who understand what you’re facing and want to walk alongside you.
You do not have to do this alone.